"A Quote For The Weekend"

"I am careful not to confuse excellence with perfection. Excellence I can reach for; perfection is God's business"

-- Michael J. Fox

A Quote For The Weekend

"I am careful not to confuse excellence with perfection. Excellence I can reach for; perfection is God's business"

-- Michael J. Fox
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Coach Otis Henderson
Christian Cultural Center
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"Don't Ever Give Up!"

Good morning!
Spring has sprung, no? What a beautiful morning here in Brooklyn, NY!! Thank God!!

Our bold print is verses 17-18, NLTse:

Proverbs 23:17-18
17 "Don't envy sinners, but always continue to fear the Lord."

18 "You will be rewarded for this; your hope will not be disappointed."

Have you been praying for something in your life? Do you have a desire to accomplish something great for God- to bless others? Do you have a dream that you know can only be accomplished with God's help? I have several dreams like that!

Well, this passage reminds us not to look at the success of others. We are to reminded that if we maintain a reverence for the Lord and live our lives applying the wisdom that we learn here --- we will NOT be disappointed!! NO MATTER what it looks like! People willl disappoint us and circumstances may look bleak - but IF we fear the Lord we will be rewarded and our hopes will not be disappointed!!!

I don't know about you, but I needed to hear that word!! We are human and sometimes get distracted by "what things look like"; but God will never disappoint us!! "The fear of the Lord is the begininng of wisdom" that will guide us to trust fully in the Lord!

So, don't look at circumstances...keep your faith and focus on the Lord!!

"Choose Them Wisely"

Good morning, Wise Ones,
It's really inspiring to see you each morning, dedicated to studying Proverbs...

Our bold print are verses 24-25, the Message version:

Proverbs 22:24-25
24 Don't hang out with angry people; don't keep company with hotheads.

25 Bad temper is contagious — don't get infected. THE MESSAGE

This passage is pretty straight-forward in and of itself. I just want to continue the thought to the next logical step: this also applies to people with other bad habits - not just being hotheaded or angry people...

Have you ever hung out with people who complain all the time? (By "hang out", we mean people we spend alot of time with, not just a casual acquaintance) When you hang out with people who complain all the time, soon you find yourself complaining about everything too!! Then, before you know it; everything annoys you and you are constantly complaining!!

So please, as we have discussed MANY times before, choose your friends wisely!! You - we, are influenced by the company that we keep...

Make the choice to be wise!!

To "See" Is a Gift!!

Good morning everyone!
It's great to see you again after a great weekend!!!

Our bold print today is found in verse 12, NLTse:

Pr 20:12

"Ears to hear and eyes to see— both are gifts from the Lord."

The ability to hear and see are physical gifts given to us when God created us! We need to thank God and not take that for granted!! However, I want to bring your attention to the spiritual side of this "gift", as well... Provebrs 22:3 says this:

Pr 22:3

"A prudent man sees danger and takes refuge, but the simple keep going and suffer for it." NIV

As those seeking to be wise, we need to see more than just the physical! We need to watch where we go, what we do, and foresee (see it before it happens) danger; or the wrong paths. In verse 27 of this chapter, it states, "the Lord directs our steps...", but we must pay attention to the details of our life and not just wander around without a purpose. That is how you end up on the wrong path....

"Well, how do we "see" stuff, Coach?" If that is your question, then I take you back to my favorite section of Proverbs, guys:

Proverbs 2:6-9
6 For the Lord grants wisdom! From his mouth come knowledge and understanding.

7 He grants a treasure of common sense to the honest. He is a shield to those who walk with integrity.

8 He guards the paths of the just and protects those who are faithful to him.

9 Then you will understand what is right, just, and fair, and you will find the right way to go.

Make the choice!!!

"Wisdom Teaches Control"

Good morning,
I pray your morning is going well! Pay someone a compliment today - no matter how you feel! When you add value to someone's life; it makes YOU smile too...

Our bold print today is verse 27, NLTse, and is another one of those verses that just says it all!!:

Proverbs 17:27

27 "A truly wise person uses few words; a person with understanding is even-tempered."

It's another verse about our mouths! "A truly wise person uses few words" - a wise person knows that it is not always good to say everything on your mind. The NIV actually says "uses words with restraint" or control. The last part of the verse just instructs us AGAIN, to have self-control. As we have discussed in previous posts...self-control is a choice!

I will close this post by bringing your attention to a companion verse that relates so well to our bold print:

James 1:19-20 (NIV)
19 "My dear brothers, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, "

20" for man's anger does not bring about the righteous life that God desires. "

Make the choice!!

"Compass or A Clock?"

Good morning all!
I am sorry I missed you guys yesterday. I had a SUPER early meeting in the City and ended up doing my devotions on the express bus. I forgot to post my bold print from my mobile phone. Please accept my apology...OK? But, I am SURE that you received your own bold print from Proverbs 15 yesterday... :)

OK, we are going to do something different today. My bold print is verse 9, NLTse; but the comments will come from another source. I get an online monthly leaership devotional emailed to me from the NLT website. Today's fit so well with my bold print, I decided to share it with you...

Proverbs 16:9

We can make our plans, but the Lord determines our steps.

Compass or Clock?

A friend said, “My problem is that I have surrendered my time to work, to other people, and to bad habits.”

That truly is the problem, not only for my friend but also for many of us. We should first surrender our time to God. God owns it anyway. Unfortunately, we often ask God to wait in line for leftover time. No wonder life seems out of sync! We need help with our task to manage properly what has been entrusted to us until Christ returns or wants it back, and that includes our time.

Think about a compass and a clock. Two very important tools with two very different purposes. One would be wise not to confuse the two. To surrender our time to God is to be governed by a compass rather than to be controlled by a clock. A compass provides a sense of direction, purpose, vision, perspective, and balance. A clock measures duration, the expenditure of time. A compass determines effectiveness—doing the right tasks. A clock determines efficiency—how long it takes to accomplish a task. Each has its place. But, the compass must come before the clock; therefore, effectiveness before efficiency. The “mega priorities” of the compass subordinate the “mini priorities” of the clock.

A compass, therefore, becomes a symbol of an internal guidance system that provides us with our values and convictions based on God’s Word. This non-negotiable governs our lives. In the same manner that the magnetic force pulls the compass needle, it is God who governs the drive of our lives. We surrender to his force.

Our time should be surrendered to God daily. I asked a friend who is engaged in many pursuits successfully how he managed it all. He said, “I give my first minutes to God, then I commit the remainder of the day to his Lordship. And amazingly I work more effectively and efficiently.”
Have you surrendered your time to God? Is your future in his hands?
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"Choose To Control Your Anger"

Goos morning, Family!
I trust you are all well today! As I make this post today, I am listening to Darwin Hobbs' song, "We Worship You Today"...tremendous song!i

Well, today's bold print is verse 29, NLTse. This is one of those verses that really don't need much expounding. It pretty much says it all:

Proverbs 14:29

"People with understanding control their anger, a hot temper shows great foolishness"

We who want to be wise must control our anger! If we don't control our anger we "do foolish things" (verse 17) and show that we lack maturity and understanding. Having said this, we all know that controlling your anger is not always easy, but it is clear if we are instructed to control our anger, it means that IT IS A CHOICE!

So, make the choice: Control your anger and show that you have understanding!!

"The Path of Safety"

Good morning Ye Seekers of Wisdoom, :)

I trust you all celebrated "The Resurrection of Jesus" with your family and friends! We had a wonderful time at our church, CCC in Brooklyn, on Good Friday and Easter. The time of fasting for a week focused my attention and gave me a NEW understanding of Christ's sacrifice...Thank You Lord!! I am more focused than ever before...

Today's bold print is found in verse 6 today, the NIV:

Proverbs 13:6

"Godliness guards the path of the blameless, the evil are misled by sin."

Godliness as defined is: "conforming to the laws and wishes of God" (dictionary.com). To us as Christians, we know we become godly after we accept Christ into our hearts and then we want to live a life of gratitude by being obedient. So, godliness in this context is obedience....agreed?

When we are obedient, our path is guarded because we are in the place (or on the path) of God's protection. We are obeying His commands and instructions and that is a place of safety!!

I hinted at the principle above; but here it is officially, as quoted from a great man that I know: "Our greatest place of protection is obedience to God's word"! No "ifs ands or buts"; OBEDIENCE! So, just to continue the thought....WHAT KIND OF PATH DOES DISOBEDIENCE TAKE YOU ON? Hmmmmm...do you want to be on THAT path???

Make the wise choice, folks: choose OBEDIENCE!!

"The Hardest Easy Way..."

Good morning!!
This is a awesome time for us as Christians when we remember what Jesus went through for US!! We will never really know "how much it cost to see our sins upon that cross", as the song goes... BUT, WE THANK HIM, DON'T WE??!!

Our bold print today is in verse 19, the NLTse:

Proverbs 10:19

19 "Too much talk leads to sin. Be sensible and keep your mouth shut."

I call this bold print "The hardest easy way to stay out of trouble"!! How many times has our mouth gotten us into trouble? More accurately put; how many times has our lack of control of our mouths gotten is into trouble? Many times? More times than you or I care to count, right? If we kept our mouths (our big "yaps") shut more, we would have so much less stress and trouble wouldn't we?

I love the way the NKJV puts it:

Proverbs 10:19

19 In the multitude of words sin is not lacking, But he who restrains his lips is wise. NKJV

So, we agree that when you talk to much you are going to sin, but verse 19 tells us we can do something about it...RESTRAIN them!! We CAN control over our mouths! But, to do that it's "gonna" take some real wisdom and common sense, no? Well, we KNOW where to get those attributes from, don't we? (Prov. 2)....We have talked about it enough!!!

So, the easiest way to stay out of trouble is to keep mouths under control; restrained! But, it is the hardest thing to do without wisdom and understanding, which our God grants to those that follow His instruction.

So, make that choice to pursue wisdom --- it teaches us how to keep our BIG YAPS shut!! :)

I love you guys!

Devotions: Breakfast of Champions!!

Good morning!
I pray that you have an awesome day! Learn something new today and add value to someone's life by paying them a compliment...that act will add value to YOU too!

We are going to go off script today. Many of you are observing a week of Consecration leading to Easter. At my church, Christian Cultural Center (CCC) in Brooklyn, NY, we call it Consecration Week; and we are fasting (one meal a day), watching what we intake as far as TV and music so that we can focus in on our lives and let God speak to us about what we need to purge. I have felt God's presence in my life in a profound way!!

The whole purpose of this blog is to share my daily morning devotions with you. But, this is just part of my devotions and I decided to share my entire pattern with you! This is not original by any means; I first heard it from one of my mentors who shared it at a staff meeting in 2006 and it has stuck with me ever since. I hope it is a blessing to you:

Pastor Bernard’s Time Tested devotion strategy:

1. Start in the Word (Proverbs-a-day) before praying. God speaks to us from the Word and it sets God's personal agenda for US!! It is not based on our desires – but on His Word!(always let God set His agenda first!)

2. Then go onto a time of prayer based on what you read…
3. THEN go into a time of making your requests known to God...
4. Then enter into Praise & Worship

Make your devotions the most important meal of the day! It's your choice...

Wisdom's Rewards

Hello my friends,
It's a good day today. It will be even better as we take another step in our search for wisdom in Proverbs.

Today's bold print is found in verses 17 and 35, NLTse. It is also very simple and to the point today. Read the entire chapter and take note of all the awesome things that come to those who love wisdom and search earnestly for it.

I love how our bold print is simple, & yet SO profound:

Proverbs 8:17

"I love all who love me. Those who search will surely find me."

Proverbs 8:35

" For whoever finds me finds life and receives favor from the Lord."

So, make the choice and search for wisdom - the rewards are life & favor from the Lord!!

Apply For A "Grant"!!

Greeting Students of Wisdom!
Thank you for joining me today! I pray that you have an awesome day...

Our bold print will start in verse 7, NLTse and Amplified versions; but we will look at a few other related verses, ok?

Proverbs 7:7
"I saw some naive young men, and one in particular who lacked common sense" (NLTse)

Proverbs 7:8
"And among the simple (empty-headed and emptyhearted) ones, I perceived among the youths a young man void of good sense" (AMP)

If you read the whole chapter, it instructs young men about avoiding the temptation of the immoral woman. In earlier posts, we discussed that this warning instructs us all to resist all kinds of temptation in our lives!!

I chose verse 7, because the verse singled out one young man "devoid (or lacking) common sense" and because of that void he fell for the temptation. In verses 1-4 of this chapter we are instructed to "guard the commands [of Proverbs], to tie them around your finger as a reminder ["store them" as we have discussed], and write them "deep into your heart". This addresses the "empty-headed and empty-hearted" condition described in the Amplified version.

In essence, this verse is teaching us that because of his lack of common sense, the young man fell for the temptation. Therefore, if he had common sense - HE would be able to resist the temptation!!! What do you mean, Coach? Read this:

Proverbs 2:6-9 (NLTse)
6 For the Lord grants wisdom! From his mouth come knowledge and understanding.
7 He grants a treasure of common sense to the honest. He is a shield to those who walk with integrity.
8 He guards the paths of the just and protects those who are faithful to him.
9 Then you will understand what is right, just, and fair, and you will find the right way to go.

I think you know what to ask God for now, right? So, make THAT choice right now and EVERYDAY!

"Seek To Have Good Advice In Your Life"

Good morning all!
It is fantastic to see you all today!! I have a feeling you are seeing good changes in your life as a result of our study of Proverbs. Am I right? That's what studying the Word does...

So, let's get to work on getting a little wiser today. Let's look at chapter 6, verse 23 in the Message version:

Proverbs 6:23

"For sound advice is a beacon, good teaching is a light, moral discipline is a life path. "

To put this in context, the verses before this one speak about remembering and listening to your parent's advice. To "tie them around your neck" so you don't forget them. (We have heard that phrase alot, no?)

Now, some of us have been blessed with godly parents who have given us good advice. We didn't always listen when we were younger, but as we matured we've realized just how good their advice was! However, I know that some of you may have not had that experience and I want to speak to you right now - but you can all listen :). If your home/family life was not filled with good advice, you can make the choice to change that by the people that you choose to have in you life right now. Here are some ways:

1. Find a mentor: We have already talked about finding a mentor. The importance of having someone who can "speak into your life", because you have given them permission.

2. The company you keep: There are also the people you choose to be friends with; "hang out with". If you SURROUND yourself with successful, honest and moral people; the good advice will FLOW!!

3. Finally, you also have your "heavenly Father" who gives you incredible advice from His Word!

These are just some of the ways you can choose to bring good advice into your life. And as our bold print tells us, "Good advice is a beacon, and light, and moral discipline is a life path" (a journey and not just a destination). We should be "life learners" in the area of moral discipline!!

Make the choice to bring good advice into your life!

How Do You "Store"?

Hello and good morning!
How are you today? Have you said something nice to someone today??? :-)

Our bold print today is verse 1, NLTse:

Proverbs 3:1
"1 My child, never forget the things I have taught you. Store my commands in your heart."

We all agree that studying Proverbs has been enriching our lives, no? The consistent study has changed my life -- and I am finding wisdom!!

My question to us - the bold print today is a question that comes from what verse 1 tells us to do: how do you store the commands that you have been reading in Proverbs? A great quote that I always use is: "Truth unrehearsed is soon forgotten". Yes, we get some great instruction and wisdom-filled verses in Proverbs, but if you don't "store" them in your heart, then their value will pass right by you...

I previously shared with you my system of how I review Proverbs as an alert in my Outlook calendar each day. I will record 2-4 favorite verses from today, for example, and when the alert rings I stop to take time and review and meditate on them. I used to call them Proverbs alerts, not I call the P-Gems...(Proverbs gems)

Do you have a system? My system is great when I am disciplined to use it. Sometimes the alert will ring and I will put it off til later - which never comes. But, when I stop and review the "gem"; many times it helps me avoid traps that are about to occur. (Ex.- my mouth gets me in trouble and Proverbs is full of verses admonishing me to keep my mouth shut (Prov. 17:28) - and it helps refocus me to discipline my mouth that day.

So, what are you going to do about this? What is your system to store the commands in your heart? Are you being disciplined in following your system consistently? The next verse shows us the benefit of storing commands in our heart: "If you do this, you will live many years, and your life will be satisfying"

Make the wise choice to store and be disciplined!!

Wisdom and Relationships

Hello, folks!
It is great to see you all again this morning!!

Let's get right to work on becoming wiser people, shall we? We are in chapter 2, verse 12, NLTse:

Proverbs 2:12

"Wisdom will save you from evil people, from those whose words are twisted."

We need to make wiser choices about our friends and who we hang out with! Staying away from the felons and "America's Most Wanted" is not so hard because those type evil people are obvious and we sorta automatically avoid them! The more "covert" or subtle evil types (they say the right SOUNDING things and "seem" nice) are the ones that catch us by surprise...then before we know it we are following therm down the wrong path!!

We need to use the wisdom that GOD GRANTS (v. 6) and the Bible says we will stay away from evil people and people who deceive us ("whose words are twisted"). Since God grants it, LET"S ASK OUR FATHER FOR IT! We will receive it -- free of charge.

So be wise in your choices and ask God to grants you wisdom to wisely choose our friends!

Reminder: The Purpose of Proverbs

Good morning everyone!
It's April already!! Time truly flies...

Today's bold print is chapter 1, verses 2-3, NLTse:

Proverbs 1:2-3

2 "Their purpose is to teach people wisdom and discipline, to help them understand the insights of the wise.

3 Their purpose is to teach people to live disciplined and successful lives, to help them do what is right, just, and fair."

I thought we should stop and be reminded why we study Proverbs. What are the benefits?

I observe many leaders and have found that the great ones are wise enough not to try and expound on certain things sometimes. They realize that all that needs to be said -- HAS been said and that's how I feel about these two verses. They clearly state the purpose of Proverbs and what can be gained by studying them.

So, make the wise choice today and meditate on these verses and re-commit yourself to living a disciplined and successful life!!

Leaders Must Be Disciplined

Hello Everybody!
I hope you slept well and are having a great day! Our attitude has A LOT to do with how our day is, doesn't it??

Today's bold print is in verses 4-5. This chapter is better known as the "Virtuous Woman" chapter and I have been blessed to have married a virtuous woman! :) However, today I find something new; at least for me...

We are in the Message version:

Proverbs 31:4-5
"4 Leaders can't afford to make fools of themselves, gulping wine and swilling beer,

5 Lest, hung over, they don't know right from wrong, and the people who depend on them are hurt. "

Leaders must be disciplined! This passage warns against excessive drinking, but if you don't drink; don't think that this has nothing to do with you!! All areas of excess and lack of self-control can hinder a leader's effectiveness. You fill in the blanks in your mind with the areas that you struggle to be disciplined in. Those are the areas that YOU "cannot afford to make a fool of yourself" in!!

As it says in verse 5, there are many "people that depend on you that will get hurt". So, our lack of discipline as leaders doesn't just hurt us as individuals, but it also hurts the people that we lead!!!! WOW!

Well, make the wise choice and work on being disciplined -- people are depending on us!!

Mobile post: Run To Protection!!

Good morning folks!
I had a fantastic weekend! My mom was in town visiting from NC and she spent the day with my family! Good to see you, Mom! (She reads my blog sometimes) :-)

Well, we are in Proverbs 30:5, NLTse:

"Every word of God proves true. He is a shield to all who come to Him for protection"

Have you ever bought a new gadget or appliance? You open the box, take everything out, look it over and turn it upside down and then say, "how do you use this thing"? Then after a little more struggle you finally resort to "the instructions" - that were waiting all along and then say, " ahhh now I understand"!! This has happened to me MANY times!! LOL!

Well, that is our heavenly Father; waiting to instruct us, protect us and show us the right way to go. All we have to do is go to him and ask for protection. The key is: WE have to GO! God has made us free moral agents with the ability to make choices. Unfortunately for us, if we choose the wrong path we are out from under God's protection and then we will suffer the consequences of our bad choice. AR Bernard puts it succintly: "Our greatest place of protection is obedience"... WOW!

So, let's make a wise choice TOGETHER. Instead of worrying about something, or being stressed by a situation or tough decision; let's ask God for His protection and take refuge! (protection and shelter from danger)

What an AWESOME promise!!

Fear The Lord & Respect Your Leaders!!

Good morning!!
It's a chilly morning here in NYC; but I am looking forward to a great day nonetheless!!

Our bold print is in verse 21-22 today, NLTse:

Proverbs 24:21-22
"My child, fear the Lord and the king. Don't associate with rebels,
22 for disaster will hit them suddenly. Who knows what punishment will come from the Lord and the king?"

Who we associate (hang out) with does affect us and our future!!! We have been instructed many times in Proverbs to "fear the Lord". It is the "beginning; the foundation of wisdom". We understand that, no? But in this passage we are also instructed to "respect our leaders (or the King) and not to associate with rebels". Their behavior will infect us and we will be treated like a rebel!!

Associating with rebels is not just about overt or obvious bad behavior, rebellion can be quiet, like a strong undercurrent; hidden in a body of water. It can't be seen and it grows out of sight. If left unchecked, it will grow into a root of bitterness that will infect many (Hebrews 12:15). This is why loyalty and trust are so important to a leader.

Now, we understand that no one - including a leader is perfect! They will make mistakes; oh YES they will, but the Bible is clear here, we are to respect them and not join in with the crew of people that rebel, or are defiant. (as described in the Message version) This behavior can seriously RUIN your future!

So, make a wise choice and be careful who you associate with at work, home or where God has placed you to minister! Find good, success minded, respectful people that fear God!! They are NOT hard to find if you are looking in the right place...

Experiment: Let's See Who is Out There!!

Good morning all!
How was your weekend? My college prep ministry team and I had a great event on Saturday morning! It was fantastic and further evidence that God answers prayer!!!

Today's bold print is in chapter 23, verse 12, NLTse:

Prov 23:12
"Commit yourself to instruction; listen carefully to words of knowledge"

I am going to try something new today: I would like to hear from YOU! What does this verse say to YOU?? Please respond today and I will post your comment on the main page by tonight. If it makes it easier, you can send your comments re verse to 12 to my email: otishjr@gmail.com

I hope to hear from you soon & make wise choices today!!

Mobile Post: Avoid Gossips!

Good morning folks,
I am glad to see you this morning! We have a chance to have another this day successful one!!

Our bold print today is in verse 19, the Message version;

Proverbs 20:19 (MSG)
"Gossips can't keep secrets; never confide in blabbermouths".

How many of you have been burned by a "blabbermouth"?? You shared something in confidence and then found out that this person has told other -- sometimes MANY people!! It has happened to me a lot!!

What is our typical reaction? We get very angry at them, don't we? Well, according to this verse, its kind of our fault!!

Ok, now you all really think I am crazy don't you?

But, it says it right here: "Gossips can't keep secrets"! As we seek to be wise, "God grants us common sense" (Prov. 2) and "eyes to see" (Prov. 20:12) & if we pay attention, we can tell a blabbermouth, can't we? It's usually the one talking about someone else's secrets to YOU!!

I heard a great quote at a leadership conference "never confide in someone who can't help you with your problem"!! That means you choose who you confide in, not just the first available ear...!!

We have all be burned by an "undercover blabber-agent", but after we get "hood-winked", wise people learn from their mistakes!

Listen, a "liar" will lie to you so you shouldn't get upset when they lie to you. Therefore, if you confide in a blabbermouth, they are going to burn you - so don't even hang around with them!

Make a wise choice and choose carefully who you confide in!!

Listen...listen...listen!!

Good morning and how are you?
I pray all is well with you and you families!!

Today's bold print is found in chapter 18, verse 13, in the NIV version:

Prov 18:13
"He who answers before listening — that is his folly and his shame."

We all do it: someone starts to tell us something and we finish their sentence in our mind, or we think we know where they are going...and we jump right in there -- usually mouth first, followed by "foot in mouth" disorder. One of the greatest things we have to learn to do as leaders is to LISTEN first then speak. When someone comes to us and wants to talk, they want to be heard first!! They want to vent - to get it all out...

We can really make a fool of ourselves ("that is HIS folly") when we don't listen first, but we ALSO tell the person that came to us that we don't really care about them!! What do I mean? If we REALLY cared about them instead of trying to be impressive, we would listen to want they are saying and "hear their heart"!! That is why Proverbs repeatedly teaches us to control our mouths!!! (Example Prov. 17:27-28)

Well, make a wise choice today and everyday:

1. Listen...

2. Listen...

3. Listen AGAIN...

4. Then Speak!!

God Bless you!!

Good Leaders Cultivate!!

Hello my friends!
How was your weekend? Mine was REALLY busy!! So, today I am "vegging out" and relaxing...it's good to take a break, no? But, NEVER a break from the Word!

Today's bold print is in chapter 16, verse 10, The Message version:

Proverbs 16:13
"Good leaders cultivate honest speech; they love advisors who tell them the truth"

As a leader, I have learned that it is important to have smart, successful, and HONEST people around me. I do NOT want a "yes person" who just blindly agrees with everything. I love having respectful debate because it can help you avoid deception or a bad decision!! I think most leaders feel this way. Well, that is part of what verse 10 is saying...

This verse also shows the leader's responsibility if he wants to have good advisors around him - he must cultivate them! Cultivate means "to promote the growth or development of something". A farmer cultivates his land because he wants to grow crops for a plentiful harvest. Therefore, a leader should cultivate his relationship with his advisors; his "inner circle", so that they feel free to be honest and upfront, even if they respectfully disagree with the leader. If your advisors express their honest assessment and you constantly take their heads off, soon you meetings will always end early because NO ONE will say anything again!!!

The leader is really a servant then, isn't he? He is helping to develop the talents (visible and hidden) of his team -- helping them to grow and serve others as well as the team! When the atmosphere of a team is permeated by "a Leader who cultivates", that team has unlimited potential!!

So, make a wise choice and cultivate your people so they grow and develop and they will help your team grow immeasurably!!

Use Your Words Carefully!!

Good morning everyone!
I pray that you slept well last night. If you are feeling groggy every morning; ummm, longer than you should, that is :) - try going to bed a little earlier; turn off the TV, have a nice cup of tea. Letting you body rest more helps your thinking and decision making!!

So, today we are in chapter 13, verse 3, in the Message version:

Proverbs 13:3
Careful words make for a careful life; careless talk may ruin everything.

How many times have careless words escaped your lips? Countless times for me!!! Every time it happens, I wish I had thought before I spoke. Thought about what I was about to say and held it back. In verse 16 of this same chapter it says: "Wise people think before they act".....

We must be careful what we say, especially as people who want to be wise. People look to us as an example. In Proverbs 2, it says that God grants common sense, so we have a choice to keep our mouths closed. We don't always have to say something!! I have found it quite illuminating when I consciously close my mouth and listen to those around me. It's amazing what I learn about people and human nature!!

I have also found that when I discipline (which we touched on last post) my mouth, it makes me careful about everything I do! I make the conscious decision and tell myself to "zip my lips", this energizes the Holy Spirit to remind me to control my mouth...when I listen!

So, make a wise choice and watch your mouth; careless talk can ruin EVERYTHING!

Love Discipline!!

Good morning!
It's a beautiful day here in NYC! The sun is shining and the Son is about to shine on our hearts as we study his Word! (that was kind of poetic, huh?) :-)

*** Special note from Coach: I want to apologize for yesterday's incomplete post. Something happened that I could not correct. But I know what i did wrong and it shouldn't happen again!! Now, let's get to work!!

We are in verse 1, of chapter 12, The Message version today...

Proverbs 12:1
"If you love learning, you love the discipline that goes with it — how shortsighted to refuse correction!"

Another great quote/principle from my mentor, AR Bernard; "The true evidence of learning is application". (I am paraphrasing because I dont remember it verbatim) The gist of the quote is that you haven't really learned something until you apply it to your life!! The other fact about learning is that it always exposes the things you are doing wrong to the correct way of doing! After yesterday's post error; I discovered (learned) what I did wrong, and to prevent it from happening again, I have to be disciplined to apply the right way that came from learning.

Let's face it, we don't usually like discipline - don't want to hear people talk about it, we don't even want to SAY the word, do we? When I think of the word; the next thing that comes to my mind is: PAIN!! But, God says to us in his Word, "If you love learning, you love the discipline that goes with it". So, there is NO getting around the important of discipline in our lives because we want to learn to be wise, no???

So, make a wise choice, LOVE discipline!!

I love you & appreciate you!

Pray For "The Advisers"!!

Grace & Peace!
I am so happy to see you today! I think we may have some new people to The Smart Game plan blog this week. Welcome!

We are in Proverbs 11 today, corresponding with today's date; verse 14, NLTse:

Proverbs 11:14
Without wise leadership, a nation falls; there is safety in having many advisers

I heard a great quote this weekend from my mentor, AR Bernard, that I think fits here today: "Counsel determines our destiny." Those of you that study leadership know the axiom of surrounding yourself with successful people and the benefits derived from that philosophy. We have also heard our parents say: "You are known by the company you keep."

When you have trusted people in your life whose input and advice you value, it helps you in your decision-making process. The really trusted ones in our lives don't always agree with us either, do they? Those are the advisers that we really value because they "kick it" to us straight!!! When you are being advised by godly people, their advice plays a big part in informing your decisions...

Well, my challenge to you today is to pray for our president's advisers --- those that he trusts and listens to! Pray that he has godly advisers that have a true relationship with the one true God and therefore will offer him godly advice. Pray that there are also spiritual advisers in his inner circle that can guide him to the knowledge and fear of the Lord. As students of Proverbs we know that the "fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom"

So, make a wise choice today and pray for the president's and all our leaders' advisers. But not just for today, I encourage you to make it a habit!! "Counsel determines destiny."

How To Become Wiser

Happy Monday, people!!
The weekend is over and it's time to get back into the "grind" AND it's another opportunity to study Proverbs together!!

We are in chapter 9, verse 6, NLTse:

Pr 9:9
Instruct the wise, and they will be even wiser. Teach the righteous, and they will learn even more.

This is simple today...two things:

1. YOU be the wise person: that allows your mentor ("live" or "distance") to speak into your life; to instruct (teach) you, and you will grow wiser! Let them teach you so that you will learn more!!

Example: one of my live mentors instructed me regarding an area that I made a big mistake. They got on me for making the dumb move, but then showed me what I should do in the future. After I got over the embarrassment I decide to learn more about decision-making and thinking before acting because I didn't want this to happen again. The thing about me is I get angry at myself when I make a bad decision, but disappointing my mentor REALLY hurts too!!

2. YOU be the mentor: I am sure you can think of at least one person in your life that comes to you for advice or counsel. They value you what you say and respect your opinion. WELL, pick one or two and "instruct them" in the things you are learning from Proverbs! Don't go around like an "annoying instruction machine", but using the common sense that God grants (Pr. 2) and the leading of the Holy Spirit, speak into someone's life this week!!

Believe me, you either have someone is mind right now, or they will be drawn to you because of how your life is changing as you study Proverbs. What we learn and experience is not just for us, but to "teach others also" (2 Timothy 2:2)

Make wise choices today and include helping someone become wiser as YOU become wiser too!!

Love you Guys!!

The Pain of Discipline

Good morning Wise Ones,
That sounded kinda corny right? Well, I am trying to think of a name for US....those of us that are seeking to be wise. Do you have any suggestions? Please post them...

Well, we are in chapter 5, verses 11-13, NLTse. Let's jump in there!!

Proverbs 5:11-13
11 In the end you will groan in anguish when disease consumes your body.

12 You will say, "How I hated discipline! If only I had not ignored all the warnings!

13 Oh, why didn't I listen to my teachers? Why didn't I pay attention to my instructors?

In an earlier post, we discussed that this chapter obviously is a warning against the "immoral woman"; being adulterous, or not being faithful to the wife of your youth. We discussed that it also pertains to the sin that we always seems to fall for and we concentrated on verse 8: "staying away from her door". If you are trying to resist something you should not be near the door of temptation. As we have been instructed in several verses in Proverbs: "a prudent man gives thought to his steps"...he pays attention to where he is going!!!

The is a great quote from one of my mentors: "In life you will suffer the pain of discipline or the pain of regret". Our bold print speaks of what can happen if we ignore the pain of discipline. To correct a bad behavior, to resist a sin in our lives, it takes discipline. "Discipline means doing what you need to do, when you need to do it; no matter how you feel". To be wise and live the life God has called us to, it takes discipline. If we ignore the Holy Spirit; the mentors (teachers) in our lives that look out for us, or don't read God's word and apply our hearts to wisdom, we set ourselves up to suffer the pain of regret.

Pain of regret is after you do something dumb, you are sitting or on your knees ashamed and upset at what you did, and all that goes through your mind is "I should have done that and not THIS, why didn't I listen to my husband or wife?, what is wrong with me?", etc., etc. Have you been there? I know I have!!

Folks, this is serious stuff!! Study Proverbs, maintain your quiet time/devotions with the Lord on a consistent basis. Seek counsel from your mentors...do WHATEVER you have to to keep discipline in your life. Don't get lazy, stay focused!! Then you will stay away from the door of the immoral "woman" or that sin that always messes you up! "Discipline is the bridge between thought and accomplishment"

Make a wise choice and suffer the pain of discipline to keep you on the right path!! It's not easy, but it is easier than suffering the "pain of regret"!!

Stay on the "PATH"!!

You Will Make Mistakes

Hello my friends...hello!!
It is really good to see you this morning!! I am really inspired by your desire to diligently study the Proverbs!

Here we are in Proverbs 4 today, verse 5, NLTse. It was hard settling on a bold print today because this chapter is so RICH! (smile)

Proverbs 4:5
Get wisdom; develop good judgment. Don't forget my words or turn away from them.

We know that the writer of Proverbs has been encouraging us to "apply our hearts to wisdom"; "To get understanding". What I find interesting in this verse is that we are also instructed to develop good judgment!! Develop!! To me that means we will make mistakes!! I don't think that is a surprise to any of us that we will make mistakes; I think it's encouraging to know that even though we will make mistakes there is hope that we can have good judgment. The key is in the second part of the verse: "Don't forget my words or turn away from them". So, as we make decisions (good or bad) we are to learn from them, then we remember the words of Proverbs and get back on the path...the path to developing good judgment!

Now, let's interject something in here: in Proverbs 2, it is mentioned that God grants a treasure of common sense. When we search for his wisdom and common sense then "we will know what is right, just, and fair, and we will know which way to go" (Pr 2:9). Therefore, we know that God's wisdom will guide us onto the RIGHT path...so then: "don't forget HIS words or turn away from them (today's bold print ties in)!!!!! Our lives will be victorious as a result! WOW...

The Lord knows what he's doing doesn't He? So let's make a wise choice and get some wisdom and develop good judgment!!

Make Kindness An Everyday Thing!!!

Good morning everyone!
How was your day yesterday? Did you make wise choices? As those seeking to be more wise, we should be reflecting on our days to learn from our victories AND mistakes...

Today we are in verses 3 & 4 of our Proverb for the day, NLTse...let's get to work!!

Proverbs 3:
3 Never let loyalty and kindness leave you! Tie them around your neck as a reminder. Write them deep within your heart.
4 Then you will find favor with both God and people, and you will earn a good reputation.

Simply put: "make kindness and loyalty a habit in your life." "Remind yourself to do it"!! We have talked about making the study of Proverbs a habit. We have also discussed creating reminders, or "proverbs checks" in your day. As I shared, my Outlook gives me a "pop up window" and an audible alert to remind me to review the Proverbs bold print verses I read that day.

Our bold print today is reminding us the importance of being kind!! When is the last time you said a kind word to someone? Sometimes we get so caught up in "catching people doing something wrong". We are so quick to point out someone's faults; as if we don't have any ourselves, right? LOL! When was the last time someone said something kind to you or paid you a compliment? How did you feel when they said it? Amazing right? Well verse 3 is asking us to make kindness a habit!! "Tie it around your neck as a reminder".

I mentioned to you that one of my distance mentors, Dr. John C Maxwell, has a 30-second rule: within 30 seconds of his encounter with anyone he looks for a way to say something to add value to them. He says a "kind word, encourages and or compliments them". He FINDS a way!! HOW ABOUT YOU FINDING A WAY to be kind? Not just today...but everyday...find a way to remind yourself until it becomes habit!!

Then take a look at verse 4 and see what it will do for your life & reputation...hehehehe!

Make wise choices today - remind yourself to be kind to someone...

Trust In God Not Man!

Good morning my friends!
I pray you had a great weekend. Did you study Proverbs on your own on Saturday and Sunday? Hmmmm?

Well anyway, we are back together today and we are in chapter 29 verse 25, using the Amplified version:

Proverbs 29:25
"The fear of man brings a snare, but whoever leans on, trusts in, and puts his confidence in the Lord is safe and set on high." AMP

Has God placed a vision/mission in your heart? Do you have an overwhelming desire to accomplish that mission? I believe that we all do!! Whether it's at work, your church, at home, or a combination: we ALL have a mission to accomplish! Well verse 25 tells us to "lean on, trust in, and put your confidence in the LORD" and not in man!! People are people...and as people they will LET US DOWN from time to time!

If you place all your confidence in a person to help you reach your vision, at some point you will be sorely disappointed! People fail! I mean haven't WE failed sometimes? Haven't WE failed to live up to OUR OWN expectations for ourselves? When you place you confidence in the LORD, our verse tells us that we will be safe!! SAFE!! We all know what safe means: protected, sound, guarded...that is what happens when we put all our confidence in God!

So, right now I want you to think of what your vision is -- right now! Do you have it in your mind? (One of my missions right now is to serve the youth of my church with an awesomely successful tutoring and mentoring program)

Okay, now that you have it in your mind; regardless of the protocol in place to make your dream happen; (proposal submission, approval, staffing, etc.) I want you to consciously take your confidence off of all the people and procedures - and place them in God and Him alone. (Of course you STILL follow policies and procedures, folks!)

I encourage you to stop reading right now and pray and ask God to forgive you for trusting in people and things, and tell Him that your full confidence is in Him!!! Did you pray that prayer? I did and I am ready to GO!!

You made a wise choice today!!

Bless A Friend Today!

Hello all!
It's good to be here with you today...

My bold print today is verse 9, NLTse:

Proverbs 27:9
"The heartfelt counsel of a friend is as sweet as perfume and incense."

Do you have a good friend? A best friend? How do you feel when you see them or talk on the phone? Isn't it refreshing? I think part of it is because this is someone that you know well and they know YOU well and so you can relax around them. That is what today's bold print said to me initially: "that a words of a good friend are very refreshing" (see Message version).

This also caused me to think about something else today because last night my wife and I went to a home-going service (funeral). The woman who died had lived a very rich life; she was a blessing to so many along her life's journey. As people came up to pay tribute to her and her life; I wondered how many of them had said the nice things they were saying now - to the person back when they were alive!!???

Then today I read this verse and I am reminded that everyday I want to say something good to my friends; to say something "refreshing". I know I don't do it enough and I want to make it a habit and do it more...! WILL YOU JOIN ME?

Starting today; I am going to intentionally say something good, complimentary and refreshing to at least 3 friends. I am going to do this based on my knowledge of them. If I don't know them well, then I am going to get to know them better so I can say something good to them!! I challenge you to do the same...

Make wise choices today & bless someone today by saying something good & refreshing to them or just thank them for bring your friend!!

Pray For Your Leaders

Good morning, folks!

Today's bold print is simple. I am challenging each of you to pray for your leaders ALL day. Well, at least 4 times today, Ok? They are under a lot of pressure and have difficult decisions to make these days. We really don't understand all that goes on in their minds, but we can pray for them!!!

Proverbs 25:3 (NLTse)
No one can comprehend the height of heaven, the depth of the earth, or all that goes on in the king's mind!

Make wise choices today - pray for our leaders!! Pastors, governors, congressmen, bosses, etc....

Teach Others

Hello wise learners!
How are you? I pray all is well...(sounds like a Star Wars line...)

I am excited about getting into Proverbs today!! My bold print is verse 5, in the NLTse:

Proverbs 24:5
The wise are mightier than the strong, and those with knowledge grow stronger and stronger.

Throughout Proverbs it is stated repeatedly that: "if you correct a wise man he will grow wiser" (Coach paraphrase). WE (the wise) learn from our mistakes and it makes us wiser; smarter!! In addition, because we have found a mentor to study and consult, we learn from their victories as well as THEIR mistakes too, don't we?? "I don't have time to make all the mistakes so I learn from the mistakes of others. ~ AR Bernard (great quote)

In an earlier post, we talked about Proverbs 2, where it speaks about the "treasure of common sense that God grants"!! When we tap into that "treasure chest" we are equipped to be wise and make right choices. But, the increasing in strength is not just for US... I believe that we grow wiser and stronger to benefit others.

Just as you have chosen a mentor and allowed him or her to speak into your life; someone is looking to YOU to mentor them (or they are just silently watching you)! They want you to teach THEM how to be wise!! Let's face it folks; you cannot mentor others if you are not growing stronger yourself everyday!!

Make wise choices today -- be mightier than the strong and as you grow stronger...teach others to be strong too!!

Commit To Learning

Good morning all!
Did you have a good weekend? I had an awesome weekend! Great word delivered in church and spent time with my lovely wife!!

You know where we are today: chapter 23, my bold print is verse 12, in the NLTse

12 Commit yourself to instruction; listen carefully to words of knowledge.

I am enjoying the study of Proverbs with you!! I have been learning some much during our time together. what about you?? Today's bold print encourages us "commit to instruction (or learning) and to listen carefully to words of knowledge." Commit means "to pledge oneself with a promise to do." So this means we pledge to learn godly instruction and listen carefully to words of knowledge!! Everyday...making it a habit. (Search this blog and you will find a post where we taking aboutstudy a habit.)

The thing I am pointing out today is to commit to your Proverbs-a-day study --- everyday!! Listen carefully to words of knowledge and apply them to your lives. When you study Proverbs you should have a pen & paper, computer or laptop, OR a PDA so you can write down your bold print and have a system so that you constantly review it. "Truth unrehearsed is soon forgotten." ~ AR Bernard. Commit yourself to learning...

No games, no attempt at motivating you other than to say: you have put it off long enough -- its time to commit!! Let's learn to be as wise as we can be!!

Make wise choices today...commit yourself to the godly instruction in Proverbs!!

Listen To The Wise!!

Good Morning!
I pray all is well! It is a pleasure to see you again!!

You know what time it - so let's get going...Proverbs 19, verse 20 in the MSG version today:

20 (MSG) Take good counsel and accept correction — that's the way to live wisely and well.

We have discussed in several posts my mentors or I have been encouraging you to pick some mentors to study. It doesn't have to be someone that you know personally, you can study books about their lives, watch videos, talk to people who know them, etc. I have mentioned this because it is one of the things that has changed my life dramatically. When you choose a mentor or mentors, and study their lives, you have also given them permission to "pour and SPEAK into your life". What they say matters to you!!! My mentors have been kind of rough on me sometimes because I am a major construction project...LOL!

This study of Proverbs with you has allowed the Lord and Solomon to speak into my life and has reminded me about controlling my mouth. Reading about the life of Coach K (pictured in the right column of my blog) has taught me about becoming the type of leader your team needs every season. "You just can't stay a static leader you have to change and grow to meet your teams needs."

I say all this to echo what verse 20 is saying to us today: to take (listen) to good advice and counsel. Look for it, find it , and study it!!! Let wise people speak into your life either directly ("live") or remotely through books and videos. Finally, remember the greatest advisers and counselors of all: Jesus and the Holy Spirit. One of my mentors has been recommending the study of the life of Jesus and how HE led his disciples if you want to be a great leader!!! One of the Holy Spirit's jobs is to remind us what we read and learn...(John 16)

I have seen many quotes that state that "great leaders are lifelong learners". If you want to live a wise life and influence others to do the same, get and listen to good counsel and accept instruction (correction)...

Make wise choices today and find wise counselors!

Listen Before You Speak

Goooooood morning folks!
How are you this morning? I hope you went to bed early, slept well, and started your day off well...

Today we are in chapter 18, and my bold print is verse 13 in the NLTse:

13 (NLTse) Spouting off before listening to the facts is both shameful and foolish.

This verse relates to yesterday's post regarding using our words with wisdom and understanding - we talked about listening more. Well, verse 13 picks up from yesterday and instructs us to listen before we speak.

Have you ever misjudged a situation? (I have) There are many reasons for misjudging something, but it has most often happened to me because I assumed ("assumption is the lowest form of knowledge") I knew what someone was going to say or what they were going to do. I did not have all the facts and as a result made a wrong decision. "Spouting off at the mouth" usually followed - which was based on my assumptions...then what happens? As in yesterday's post, someone's feelings got hurt, something dumb was said making ME look dumber; and all the people standing there just shook their heads!!

"YOU CANNOT make the right decision WITHOUT all the information". This is a great quote from one of my mentors, AR Bernard. When I follow it, it has helped me avoid making bad decisions or "spouting off at the mouth". Speaking before you know all the facts is "both shameful & foolish"!!

Listen carefully before you speak!! Can't say it any plainer than that, folks!!!

Make wise decisions and listen today!!

Stay in Control!!

Hello again!
Friends: I apologize for being "MIA" - there were several logistical and technical difficulties that occurred recently and prevented me from studying with you!! I missed you guys ALOT!!! I am sure that you did your own personal study; but I just really missed our studying together!!! It's good to be back...

We are looking at Proverbs 17 today and my bold print is verse 27, NLTse:

27 A truly wise person uses few words; a person with understanding is even-tempered.

I won't ask how many of you have "opened mouth and inserted foot" before. I know all your hands would be raised!! We have all been there, right? Then afterwards; we beat ourselves up wishing we had kept our "big trap" shut! Verse 27 offers us some insight regarding why this happens and how to prevent it...

What usually precedes our opening "big trap yappin'" incident? There is usually some kind of conversation going on that we are a part of or overhear, but we don't just listen do we? We wait for any opportunity to open our "big yap" and without thinking we say something; ANYTHING!! We don't think before speaking we just SAY IT! Then comes the guilt and dread because we have hurt someone's feelings, or said something really dumb that makes us look dumber; or the worst scenario is that everyone there just looks at each other and shakes their heads!!! Ever been there? I have --- TOO many times!!

Verse 27 tells us that a truly wise person uses few words & remains calm. He or she is in control of their mouth and emotions; keeping their mouth SHUT! A truly wise person THINKS before he speaks and what comes out is a result of all the wisdom they have applied themselves to. In an earlier post, we discussed being that "go to person" that people come to for advice and counsel. When is the last time that you asked advice from someone who is always running their mouth and saying dumb things??? (Something to think about)

So, be wise today, control your emotions and use words with wisdom and restraint. Listen more than you speak; it shows wisdom and understanding. By the way: PEEK AT VERSE 28 NOW...

Make wise decisions today and use your words wisely!!!

Pay Attention To What You Hear!!

Good morning!
I trust you are doing well & making good choices!! Time to apply our hearts to wisdom...

We are in Proverbs 5:1-2, using the NLTse and the MSG versions:

1 (NLTse) My son, pay attention to my wisdom; listen carefully to my wise counsel.
2 Then you will show discernment, and your lips will express what you've learned.

1 (MSG) Dear friend, pay close attention to this, my wisdom; listen very closely to the way I see it.
2 Then you'll acquire a taste for good sense; what I tell you will keep you out of trouble.

We have studied chapter 5 before and we know it talks about the immoral woman. In an earlier post we also said that the concept of the immoral woman can be interchanged with any thing(s) (sin) in our lives that tempt us. As instructed; we are to "stay away from her door" and not play with the sin!! Remember that?

Verses 1-2 bring us back to what I shared about how "hearing the word of God is essential" in our lives! When we pay attention to the wisdom found in Proverbs; and apply our hearts ("just do it") -- we will show discernment and the wisdom will be expressed in our lives!! Discernment is "the act or process of exhibiting keen insight and good judgment". I know I need more discernment in my life, folks!! What about you?? Well, its right here, if we pay attention & "hear"!!

The wisdom will be expressed by the way we live & this will affect others. Whether you know it or not, people watch YOU - everyday! At work, or at home there are people around you that just watch the way you live - many times never telling you they do! When wisdom is expressed in the things that you say and the way you live, it not only keeps YOU out of trouble - but it can influence others to make wise decisions too!! Wow!

Have a great day and "express some wisdom" today!!!

The Greatest "Economic Stimulus Plan"

Good Morning!!
It's good to see you again!! I hope you slept well and are ready to look into God's word - "the spiritual breakfast of Champions"

Today we are in Proverbs 3:9-10, in the NLTse

9 Honor the Lord with your wealth and with the best part of everything you produce

10 Then he will fill your barns with grain, and your vats will overflow with good wine

I am sure you don't need to be reminded that our economy is in trouble right now. I know I don't have to tell YOU that money is tighter than it has ever been!! I just was to remind you that: "you can't afford...NOT to tithe!!"

In our passage today, we are instructed to give God the best of what we produce. In the TLB; verse 9 says "to give God the first of our income". You might be thinking; with your eyebrows raised; "ummmm Coach - have you seen MY bills??" I understand, believe me I do...but look at the promise: "he will fill your barns with grain and your vats will overflow..." He will give us BACK more that we need!!!

Simply, it's not about the act of giving as much as it is about how you give! Earlier in this chapter (v. 5-6) we are told" not to be impressed with our OWN wisdom". We are to just trust in the Lord!!Then a few verses later we are instructed to give the Lord the best part of what we earn (make). When we give that tithe of 10% (find the verse where we are instructed to give that amount and tell me), it is about us obeying God's word and trusting that he will fill our barns and our vats will overflow.

God knows what we need and he is very capable of supplying it, no? What he is asking from us in this passage - the entire chapter - IS TO TRUST THE LORD! When you have a promise from someone to give the first part of your income and the return is more than you need to overflowing....well I think that is the best economic stimulus package ever offered!! The promise is made by someone who cannot lie (Hebrews 6:18)

I say it again: you can't afford NOT to tithe!! Honor your God...

Make wise choices today!

Make Wise Choices

Good morning all!
I missed you all very much last week! I had some technical difficulties and I'm glad to be back to study with you! My blog will undergo some cosmetic changes...I have some great "advisers" (Nelle Central & Kiki) and I am excited about it!!

OK, so let's get back to work...Proverbs 2, verses 11-13 in the NLTse and TLB (The Living Bible) versions:

11 (NLTse) Wise choices will watch over you. Understanding will keep you safe.
12 Wisdom will save you from evil people, from those whose words are twisted.
13 These men turn from the right way to walk down dark paths.

11-13 (TLB) You will be given the sense to stay away from evil men who want you to be their partners in crime-men who turn from God's ways to walk down dark and evil paths

In verses 1-8 of Proverbs 2, we are taught about how God GRANTS wisdom and understanding and all we have to do is ask!! (we studied that in and earlier post). Today's passage talks about one specific area where we can apply wisdom --- in our CHOICES!! It speaks about evil men & women, but it can also applies to other evil (bad) things in our lives.

We have talked about those things in our lives that we are struggling and striving to overcome - the "okey-doke" stuff we always seems to fall for, remember? Well, our passage tells us that the wisdom that God GRANTS will advise us to stay away from those situations and/or people!! In the NIV, verse 11 says "discretion will preserve you". Let's look at the word discretion...

Discretion is another attribute of the word "prudent" (you know that word). It is defined as "wise conduct and management; especially in matters of self-control and propiety" Making responsible decisions".

We have to stop making excuses and start making wise choices! There are some things you have a hard time resisting? Do a "Joseph"...avoid it like he did Potiphar's wife (look up the story). We have to be wise; paying attention to where we are going, and making wise decisions regarding our path!! How many times have we done something dumb and then afterward say, "I KNEW I should have gone the other way...or done this instead of THAT?"

My friends, the wisdom that God grants will advise you of the wise choice before you make the dumb decision!!! We have to listen...so...."what kind of HEARER are YOU?"

Make the decision to make wise choices everyday - beginning with today!!!!! God grants wisdom - if we ask Him for it!!!

I love you guys!!

Get Up!!! No More Excuses!!

Good morning!
I pray you had a great weekend! Was it productive? Did you get to relax some? Spend time with your family? These things are important in our lives!!

Well, you know what time it is - so let's get going! We are in Proverbs 26 and my bold print is verse 13 in the NLTse & MSG versions.

13 (NLTse) "The lazy person claims, "There's a lion on the road! Yes, I'm sure there's a lion out there!" 13 (MSG) "Loafers say, "It's dangerous out there! Tigers are prowling the streets!" and then pull the covers back over their heads"

We come up with some ridiculous reasons for not getting up earlier to have our quiet time don't we? You might have first looked at this verse and said, "I go to work, Coach! I get up on time to get to work!". OK, that may be true; but in a earlier post we talked about the fact that the Word is primary in our lives and hearing the Word is essential!! Well, do you make it essential by getting out of bed to "hear it" and spend quiet time with the Lord? (I hope you are not trying to have quiet time LYING in bed, Gamers...you know what will (snore) happen............)

OR do you make excuses and say, "just a few more minutes"; and pull the covers back over your head? Then all of a sudden you wake up -- too much time has gone by -- and now you have to fly around around the house so you can get to work on time!! NOW, you haven't heard the Word; you are poorly equipped to enter your day, and make the same ol' dumb mistakes that could be avoided IF you had "applied your heart to wisdom" earlier!!!

This has "guilted" me too, Gamers! I have been undisciplined about getting up earlier and it has affected me as well!! And as I compose this post; I am thinking of ways to get back on track!!! (Like turning off the TV and going to bed earlier the night before............)

So, let's agree together to STOP MAKING EXCUSES!! There are "no lions out there" preventing us from getting up earlier!! The lions "is" US and our ridiculous excuses!!! I know that I like to feeling of empowerment that I have when I get up early; start the day right with the Word & quiet time with the Lord!!!

"Getting up early: hard to do -- the power you receive when you do it -- PRICELESS!!"

Stay in the Game!!

Gamers are Committed To Instruction (Lifelong Learners)

Hello & Good Morning!!
It is a beautiful day to day in NYC! This day is full of potential!! Thank you for committing to applying your heart to wisdom, knowledge, and understanding...

Today we are in Proverbs 23:12, NLTse:

12 Commit yourself to instruction; listen carefully to words of knowledge.

As those who have committed to applying our hearts to wisdom, we have to become "committed to instruction", i.e., lifelong learners. In 2 Timothy (you find the verse this time), we are instructed to "study to show yourself approved unto God..." (KJV). To apply ourselves to widsom -- to become experts -- if you will, we HAVE to study God's word.

Brian Tracy, another one of my "distance mentors" posted an entry in his blog (3/12/07 - "One Hour Makes All The Difference") about becoming an expert in your field. He quoted renowned motivational speaker and author, Earl Nightingale, who stated, "One hour a day in your chosen field is all it takes. One hour a day of study will put you at the top of your field in 3 years. Within 5 years you'll be a national authority. In 7 years you can become one of the best people in the world at what you do!!!" (I posted a link to the complete entry on the right column)

I hope your mind is spinning like mine is right now! This verse and the direction it takes us in has far-reaching implications! We can become an expert at being wise! This is not an easy process - BUT - we have the added advantage of the Holy Spirit in our lives whose job it is to REMIND us (John 16) of everything Jesus said (found in the Bible). The Bible that we are "committed to studying it's instruction". Remember an earlier post? "The Bible is primary in our lives and hearing is essential") So, we now know that we have everything we need to become an expert at wisdom and understanding. So what's next???

DISCIPLINE: "Discipline is the bridge between thought and accomplishment" - AR Bernard

So, Gamers, let's discipline ourselves anew to be "committed to instruction and listen carefully to words of knowledge".

Stay in the Game!!